Spiritual Debt: A Paradox in the Process of Becoming

Debt is interesting. It lets us “buy” things we don't have but need. However, it also lets us buy things we don't need but want. Through debt, our needs can be met—fully and completely—without regard for whether or not we can pay the cost. However, through...

Racism as a Barrier to Becoming

Elder Wirthlin's talk in General Conference hit me hard for multiple reasons, but one is not obvious to those who don't know my family well. My family is Wonder Bread in the bakery section of life. My wife, our six children and I are not just white; we have been...

Don’t Forget to Remember

As I've said previously, my mind wanders to and fro trying to understand everything a little better as I go about my daily life. What grounds me, however, are my experiences—things that are so vivid and unexplainable that I simply can't let my mind move me away from...

Swearing and Cursing

(This is the post I promised Alison I would write. How does it relate to “Becoming”? I believe we need to take responsibility for understanding and choosing what we say and do—not allowing others to make those decisions for us.) The Bible provides the...